Noodle
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The time has come around. SD is here to stay for a while.
You may recall I received massive amounts of verbal abuse from SD 18 months ago.
So she is here, there has been zero apology. I will never get one. Interesting though. SD has been encouraged by EFH to "fix" Hs relationship with SS who is not here. Seemingly EFH not handling SS very well at the moment, probably would have liked them both out of her hair!!! After all EFHs disgusting abuse towards me and H, she now WANTS SS to come and visit. SS (the cheek) demands an apology from H before he will even consider reconciliation. Pffft!!! SD doesnt offer me any apology.
Anyway, its fine, i dont really care. Ive spent the last week away from the family home to give H and SD some bonding time. Its still fairly obvious that Im not wanted around but this is my home, deal with it.
She takes photos of her wonderful holiday, not 1 photo of me in there
im glad but again, pretending i dont exist or too afraid to show EFH that we actually got along ok.
I am going to have a rant too...SD is greedy, selfish, entitled and untidy. She runs away at the merest sign something needs doing. For example after dinner, myself H and my son wash up and dry up together. She doesnt lift an extended fingernail! We buy things to share in my house. SD hides food in her room. She doesnt share and if you ask her to share you get a look. How has she been brought up? She is extremely spoilt. Shes not once offered to buy us a drink. When my children are out H will say..."your round" to my children. Not to precious SD though. I understand hes not seen her for a while but shes almost 20 and seriously how long will this be allowed to continue? I suspect forever.
She expects it. I believe EFH will have groomed her before she came. "Dont lift a finger for them, they owe you "
I owe her nothing. I wont hold my breathe for any kind of thank you or a thank you gift. Shes just too selfish.
Meanwhile H tip toes around trying to make the best impression on his best behaviour letting SD think she doesnt have to lift a finger!
Its unreal!
You may recall I received massive amounts of verbal abuse from SD 18 months ago.
So she is here, there has been zero apology. I will never get one. Interesting though. SD has been encouraged by EFH to "fix" Hs relationship with SS who is not here. Seemingly EFH not handling SS very well at the moment, probably would have liked them both out of her hair!!! After all EFHs disgusting abuse towards me and H, she now WANTS SS to come and visit. SS (the cheek) demands an apology from H before he will even consider reconciliation. Pffft!!! SD doesnt offer me any apology.
Anyway, its fine, i dont really care. Ive spent the last week away from the family home to give H and SD some bonding time. Its still fairly obvious that Im not wanted around but this is my home, deal with it.
She takes photos of her wonderful holiday, not 1 photo of me in there
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f602.png)
I am going to have a rant too...SD is greedy, selfish, entitled and untidy. She runs away at the merest sign something needs doing. For example after dinner, myself H and my son wash up and dry up together. She doesnt lift an extended fingernail! We buy things to share in my house. SD hides food in her room. She doesnt share and if you ask her to share you get a look. How has she been brought up? She is extremely spoilt. Shes not once offered to buy us a drink. When my children are out H will say..."your round" to my children. Not to precious SD though. I understand hes not seen her for a while but shes almost 20 and seriously how long will this be allowed to continue? I suspect forever.
She expects it. I believe EFH will have groomed her before she came. "Dont lift a finger for them, they owe you "
I owe her nothing. I wont hold my breathe for any kind of thank you or a thank you gift. Shes just too selfish.
Meanwhile H tip toes around trying to make the best impression on his best behaviour letting SD think she doesnt have to lift a finger!
Its unreal!