My habit, when people get angry, is to be calm and not argue and say things like - I am very sorry if I said anything to upset you, it wasn't intended and maybe we just misunderstood each other. That didn't wash. I later tried. I value our friendship and don't want us to fall out over such a little thing. That didn't wash. I later tried. I know you have a lot on your plate at the moment and the timing was bad but I had hoped you would forgive and forget. I just got another rude response saying her decision was final. Presumably she just wanted to take control and have the last word and is a stubborn person but I think it was silly.
I hate arguments and conflicts. Maybe I should have argued back and stood up to her. People like that sometimes see it as weak if you're nice to them.
I hate arguments and conflicts. Maybe I should have argued back and stood up to her. People like that sometimes see it as weak if you're nice to them.