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Hi!Hello and welcomeHow old are your children? I am sure it is not easy being in a relationship with a widower at times. I saw your post on the other thread. Do you have your own house you both live in? That can help.
I have an 18, 14 and 13 years old.
We live separately and I am not sure if he will ever be ready to take that step… He is very connected to her family, more than his own and he is very stuck in his ways but that is also what brings him down. He did not allow himself to grief properly and then him mother (who moved with him to help) passed away suddenly. He refuses to talk to a therapist…
It’s a hard one!
Thanks for your kind words!
It does sound like he's got a lot going on. Maybe not a therapist but Cruse are specialists in bereavement counselling and will do it over the phone. Could be worth mentioning that.
It's difficult when you live separately - been there. It can become a habit that's hard to get out of. It's maybe time though if he's grieving. But he might feel better if he had people in his life to build a new life.
It's difficult when you live separately - been there. It can become a habit that's hard to get out of. It's maybe time though if he's grieving. But he might feel better if he had people in his life to build a new life.